Seducing Couple To Have Sex Without Touching Each Other

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Seducing Couple To Have Sex Without Touching Each Other

One interesting thing about sex is that your brain is more of a role in increasing sexual arousal than physical sex. That is, foreplay does not have to do with touching and petting. In fact, foreplay can be done before you and your partner undress.

If you and your husband are rarely met, and often separated because of your work, it is difficult to evoke the mood immediately. But you might not know, seduction for sex does not have to do with physical contact. Here are the trick, as reported by She Knows.

1. Intimate whisper over the phone

Let’s say you have to coming home late because the boss held a cocktail party to celebrate the success of the company, or business meeting with a client company. In fact, you and your husband are planning a romantic evening after office hours. Teased him calling him and whispered, ”Tonight, my mind can not escape from you”, ”I can not wait to see you at home” or, ”Wait for me at home, yes, I’ll give you a surprise”. Allow him to wait at home with a sense of curiosity and could not wait to meet you.

2. Send a ‘Naughty’ Text Message

You could try a more frontal to invite the couple to make love. Send ‘naughty’ message via SMS, Messenger or email to your husband at unexpected times. For example, at work or lunch. Not only surprised him, but also he can not wait to cuddle with you when he got home from work.

3. Take him to Watch Romantic Themed Movie

Some romantic themed film has scenes of sex or making out a pretty memorable and created a sensation. If you are a fan of romantic Hollywood film, of course, no stranger to the scene where Mickey Rourke Kim Basinger teasing in front of the refrigerator in the film ‘Nine 1/2 Weeks’ or sex scene Diane Lane and Olivier Martinez in the bottom of the stairs in ‘Unfaithful’.Invite him to watch the ‘sensual’ movie that you like, but do not have to watch it in its entirety.Simply turn the sexy and erotic scenes, make it as a sign that the move you want during sex later.

5 Wife Complaints That Husband Not Understand

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5 Wife Complaints That Husband Not Understand

Talking to the husband sometimes is not an easy task, especially when you try to complain to him. In fact, what you say is not necessarily the same as what he heard. As quoted from Womansday, the following 5 wife complaints and often not be understood by the husband.

Wife says: ”Your family hates me.”
Husband heard: ”Your family is crazy, all is your fault if they do not like me.”

“Women love to talk about relationships, while men are thought to immediately fix the problem,” said Terri Orbuch, author of ’5 Simple Steps to Take Your Marriage from Good to Great‘. When you declare a complaint that contain the word ”you” or ”yours”, the husband will felt blamed. Orbuch advised to ’complain’ with a better way, for example, ”I want to get closer to your family. What should I do it?”.

Wife says: ”I think you need to find a better job.”
Husband heard: ”You’re a loser. I wished to marry men who make a lot of money.”

“Judging the husband’s choice about the work the same as doubting his manhood,” explains Doug Hirschhorn, author of ‘8 Ways to Great: Peak Performance on the Job and in Your Life ‘. Men like cooperation, if he does not earn an income as you expected, show her that you both will try to change this situation so it does not look like a ’husband’s mistakes’. Tell him, ”I thought you were not paid in appropriate with the job they should. What if we look for another job that would pay more for your effort?”.

Wife says: ”I hope you can spend more time with the kids.”
Husband heard: ”You’re a bad father.”

“The husband may feel uncomfortable when with the kids because you are always criticizing how to educate,” said Orbuch. Rather than criticize, better ask his opinion, because it can help build his confidence. Tell your husband, ”The kids misses his father. Let’s make fun activities with them.” Once you and your husband have the same opinion about discipline, then try not to judge how to interact with children.

Wife says: ”I have to do many household tasks.”
Husband heard: ”You’re lazy.”

“Men are not good at empathy. They also would not say ‘you’re right, you’re too much work’,” said Orbuch. You would be hard to realize that the husband has been doing some chores, like changing the oil in your car or taking out the trash. Recognizing the contribution of the husband will motivate him to help you. Try saying, “I really appreciate you’ve cleaned the garage last week, What if we divide the housework to make it more fair?”

Wife says: ”You do not appreciate me.”
Husband heard: ”You do not love me.”

“Women want confirmation through words, but the men showed their appreciation through action,” said Orbuch. Maybe you both have forgotten how to be grateful and give praise. Instead of complaining, it’s better to say, ”Sometimes I need some recognition of what I have done to our families. I also forgot to acknowledge what you’ve done. What if we give each other awards back?”.

What Makes Irregular Menstrual Cycle?

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What Makes Irregular Menstrual Cycle?

Not a few women complained about irregular menstrual cycles. Actually, what causes it? Is there a solution to have the regular menstrual cycle back?

Wolipop Sex Consultant, Dr. Vanda Mustika explains, normal menstrual cycles ranging from 20-40 days, and the duration is somewhere between 2 to 8 days. Such a cycle is the result of a number of hormones circulating in the body.

Hormonal cycle is the result of a collaboration between our brain, bladder egg, the glands in the brain, and thyroid gland. So if there is disruption in the circulation of these hormones will result in the disruption of a woman’s menstrual cycle.

Lots of things affect the circulation of these hormones, most common cause is physical or emotional stress. So usually when someone’s body is experiencing fatigue or psychological problems severe enough usually also experience menstrual cycle disorders.”But usually these menstrual disturbances are temporary,” he told Wolipop.Other causes of menstrual cycle disorders is too much excess in weight (overweight) or weight is too low. These disorders can cause weight loss in fat metabolism disorder that would affect the levels of estrogen in the body.

Other causes is hormonal imbalances which can affect the menstrual cycle. This hormonal imbalance can be caused by a disturbance in the hormone-producing organs as mentioned above, but sometimes we can not determined the cause. To determine the hormonal imbalance you need to go to laboratory where is necessary to check levels of various types of hormones.

How to cope with irregular menstrual cycles this? Dr. Vanda recommend that you consult with a doctor to determine the exact cause.

Meanwhile, according to Dr. Med. Dr. Calvin Tjong SpOG.Obstetrics Gynecology Specialists in Puri Indah Hospital, Jakarta, women who experience irregular menstrual cycles are necessary see a doctor. ”In these circumstances, menstrual cycle can be stabilized with the birth control pills for three months. For women who want to get pregnant, can be given fertility drugs to stimulate ovulation,” said the doctor who fill the consulting gynecologist at Detikhealth.

Indian Schoolgirl Is The Shortest Woman In The World

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Indian Schoolgirl Is The Shortest Woman In The World

A girl in India has just earned her new nickname, the shortest woman in the world of Guinness World Records. Jyoti Amge is her name. As quoted by People Magazine, when Amge turned 18 years old, her height is just 24.7 inches or 62.7 cm.

“It was great to celebrate my 18th birthday with a new world record. It’s like a birthday present,” said Amge when receiving a certificate from Guinness World Records.

Although she is the shortest woman in the world, Amge not discouraged. Instead she was grateful with her height.

“If I’m not small and do not achieve this world record, I would never be able to visit Japan and Europe as well as other interesting country,” she said pleased.

Amge tells to the BBC that she wanted to become an actress of Bollywood. This long-haired woman also plans to continue her school until college. She currently has just graduated from high school.

Record for the shortest woman in the world won by Amge after she being measured by the Guinness World Records. The previous record holder was an American woman named Bridgette Jordan. Amge height is about 7.6 inches shorter than Jordan. She has achondroplasia, or dwarfism and is not expected to grow higher.

Travel Tips For Pregnant Woman

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Travel Tips For Pregnant Woman

One way to relieve stress is to do a vacation. Vacation can be done by anyone, not to mention by pregnant women. But there are things that can affect the health condition of the baby. Here are some travel tips for pregnant woman.

See Your Doctor

Do a check-up and ask your doctor if the condition of your pregnancy allows you to do a vacation trip. Disclose the plan of your trip and ask him to fill out a medical certificate indicating that you are safe to travel.

Check Your Airline

Check back the airline to ensure you can make air travel. Many airlines restrict or strongly discourage pregnant women to travel after 36 weeks. The majority of airlines also require a medical certificate to get approval to fly in the last trimester.

Perform And Prepare Everything.

Take a copy of necessary medical information and your insurance card. Use comfortable clothing and shoes when traveling.

Therefore, the low air pressure during flight can make you uncomfortable. Low cabin pressure has little effect on the pregnant woman or her fetus because the body is able to adapt naturally to the surrounding air pressure.  But exposure to radiation have an increased risk of some cancers.

Meanwhile, if travel by car, the shoulder belt should be positioned between your breast, while the lap belt must be in the hip, which is a position below your stomach. Avoid drinking soda or eating foods that cause gas such as beans.

When travel by car, plan a short trip. The stopping intensity should be consider in order to get more rest. Get out of the car when resting and move your feet.

If you travel more than 4 hours, it may increase the likelihood the risk of deep venous thrombosis (when blood clots form in the legs) and can also occur in other parts of your body.

A serious case could occur when a clot of blood was flowing to the lungs. Limit your driving as maximum of 6 hours a day, but it would be nice if someone else was driving when you having a vacation.

Be Flexible But Also Schedule

For those of pregnant women who want to do a vacation, be sure to make a flexible travel plans. Consider purchasing travel insurance for your easy in changing or canceling your trip at the last minute.

Pay attention for the nutritional food that you eat when traveling, eat with regular schedule and occasional consume snacks can resist fatigue from the journey.

Drink more mineral water so it helps you stay hydrated in the cabin. Plane’s seat belts should not be so tight or lie across your stomach.

How To Argue With Husband In A Good Way

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How To Argue With Husband In A Good Way

Debate or argue in married life is common thing. Although able to make a stronger relationships, debate could result in danger if the partner could not control himself.

Domestic debate often marked with the acts of silence for a few days or a slamming door. Before knowing how to make a healthy debate with your partner, you probably want to know the stupid things that usually people do (or maybe you too) when they’re debating.

1. Have a great desire to always win when you’re debating. Even when you are wrong.

2. Too selfish. A small argument can be a dangerous if one or both partners focus only on its own.

3. Too dominating. You often think that your partner do not do things the right way. But in fact, he just not do it the way you want.

4. Replying. For example, your partner upset with one of your behavior, he said a bad thing. Your heart become hurt and respond with the words that just as bad as your partner said. Then in the end, this will be keep repeating and be a cycle.

5. Slammed the door is one small thing that makes the debate becomes larger. When you want to show frustration, try to stay away from the area of conflict and take a properly breath.

Then how to argue in a good way ?

Mistakes that often occur when the couple is fighting is they often bring up things that strayed far from the main problem. This action only make it worse. Try to focus on issues currently being faced, not a problem in the past or small things that can cause more fight.

Every time you feel that you move out of the context of the problem, stop talking and inhale deeply. That way, you can stay focused and the problem gonna be quickly resolved.

When the  atmosphere heats up, people become much easier to be sarcastic and raise their tone sounds (voice). Either intentionally or spontaneously, it is done solely to demonstrate dominance, to defend their arguments. also avoid harsh words. The more you concentrate on how to talk, it’s easier to keep the sound remains normal and relieve a heated argument.

When you feel the emotions have started to rise, asked your couple for time to pause. There are no rules in love that all problem must be resolved on the spot and right away. Say you need time to be quiet and calm the mind, so that any decision would be taken later was through careful thought, not because of a spontaneous decision because of emotions.

When to stop arguing ?

The debate will always exist in every family life. But by understanding and avoiding the mistakes above, then you can do a healthy debate. If you do it right, the debate will be better with no shouting, slamming doors or other negative attitudes, and so you can voice opinions just like a casual discussion.

5 Activities To Do After Having Sex

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5 Activities To Do After Having Sex

Generally, couples prefer to sleep after sex. Tiredness because of energy drain, it makes people want to directly go asleep.

But perhaps many people don’t realize, that after sex activity is as important as sex itself. The moment you can use to create more intimacy with your partner.

“Hugs or other forms of touch after sex as important as thesex itself,” said Dr. Raj Brahmbhatt, sex consultant ofMumbai, as quoted by the Times of India.

Doing these five activities after sex, can provide a substantial positive impact on  your relationship between you and your husband.

1. Love Words

When making love, you are in the most intimate moments with your partner, as well as afterwards. This is the perfect time to express your affection and the things you want to keep the relationship remained intimate and harmonious. Keep your tone of voice remained soft and sweet, and do not forget to praise the action when having sex earlier.

2. Watch Movie

Before and during sex, you and your partner are not recommended to watch the TV or other electronic device that can make the mind not focused. But this is the precise activity that recommended after sex. Choose a light show such as romantic comedies or dramas. Watching a movie after having sex will help strengthen the emotional bond between you and your husband.

3. Warm Drink

Drinks such as chamomile tea, milk or hot chocolate after sex can soothe the nerves and makes the body more relaxed. Making love is an activity that makes the body tired afterwards, it is advisable to drink warm low fat milk so you can sleep better at night.

4. Shower Together

After making a passionate activity, it is useful to immediately clean up. Shower after sex to keep your body clean and also to avoid germs or bacteria, and make the body more refreshed. Moreover, if sex is done during the morning or before you do the activity, pouring cold water would make the body feels more energy dan have higher spirit to do the activity.

5. Hug Before Bed

Great sex will always end with a good night sleep. But that does not mean you or your partner can directly asleep after sex. You probably should give a warm hug to your couple while waiting to sleep. A good night sleep will make you feels refreshed when you wake up and ready to do more activities.

6 Women Stupidity When Having Relationships

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6 Women Stupidity When Having Relationships

Feeling always fail in a love relationship? There may be some of stupidity you unconsciously do when having in a love relationship.

The stupidity can be like anything, for example never reveal your irritation with your partner or maybe because you spend too much time together. Sometimes the little things that you do it only destroy the love relations or even sometimes hurt yourself. As reported by Madame Noire, this are the stupidy that women who often do when having love relationsip:

1. Too Kind

You never told him that you really do not like being yelled at or you let him not to keep his promise or you simply silent when you know he’s been lying to you. Your nice attitude certainly does not make the relationship run smoothly. Express yourself, tell him if you does not like. Express what you want, do not just stay quiet and take it for granted.

2. Too Often Together

When just start dating, certainly in between you and your partner always want to spend time together. You had to sacrificed your personal lives in order to get closer with a new lover. And your attitude is even quicker trigger boredom. Should give a distance of several days to meet him again.

3. Compare with Other Man

Some couples are an adventurous type of guy who likes to take his girlfriend to go on vacation. There is also a man who often invites his girlfriend to a concert. Whatever the type of hobbies and character of our partner, we must not compare it with other men. This could provoke him and he would feel if you are not happy with his dating.

4. Feeling Not Secure

Worries too much of her partner, making women feel insecure. If you start asking if the he really loves you or getting too much to complain, then you already do not feel safe with him. Attitudes like that can destroy a relationship.

5. Too Much Telling The Past

Don’t be too much to tell about your past, especially tell about your ex-lover. He could judge that you actually not escape from the shadow of your past.

6. Trying To Change

In this world, no one is perfect. There are people that can be changed, but some are not. If you wish to change the total nature of the bad behaviour, the relationship will only be marked by conflict and strife. Accept him as is. If you feel that you cant accept his negative trait, you probably need to think again about having a better relationship.

 

Did Kim Kardashian Buy Herself A Wedding Ring?

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Did Kim Kardashian Buy Herself A Wedding Ring?

Kim Kardashian are back in the news again. And still its unpleasant news. This time, she mentioned buying herself a valuable wedding ring that worth $ 2 millions.

Kim’s former publicist, Jonathan Jaxson reveals it exclusively to Radar Online. ”The ring was a gift to herself,” he said.

Jonathan stated that on December 26, 2007, Kim has appeared in front of the paparazzi as if she was engaged to Reggie Bush. ”So I did manage it all with her, wearing the same ring,” he said.

Earlier, when going to marry Kim, Kris Humphries admitted buying the ring weighing 20.5 carats. Ring worth U.S. $ 2 million was bought from jeweler Lorraine Schwartz.

However, based on the Jaxson’s story, the ring itself is actually purchased by Kim. He led the 31-year celebrity to a jewelry store XIV in Beverly Hills area to buy the ring.

“The ring is an object that she love to show it to everyone.” said Jaxson. ”Actually, the ring is the same ring, which she admits is obtained from Kris,” he added.

Jaxson claimed he had a lot of other stories about the Kardashians family that has not been revealed. He plans to reveal all in a book called ‘Don’t You Know Who I Am Yet?’

5 Ways To Get No Cheating Marriage

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5 Ways To Get No Cheating Marriage

Many factors both inside and outside that can trigger your temptation for cheating. One of the most common factor is the habit to tease others or flirting. By doing this does not necessarily mean you are cheating on your partner, but you should avoid as much as possible.

According to Michael Brickey, psychologist and author of ‘Defying Aging’, joking or small seduction with someone outside your ‘official’ relationship are very easy to trigger an affair. As quoted from Yourtango, the definition of flirting itself is a sexual invitation for someone in the form of fun.

Flirting is one important thing to the happiness of the relationship, but should only be performed for the primary relationship. There are several ways you can do to make your wedding an anti against an affair. Here as listed below!

1. Make your wedding relationship an anti to cheating, you need to start with yourself. For example, do the flirting habits in front of your partner. Do not hesitate to try a creative way while teasing. But remember, do this only on your partner.

2. Temptation of cheating often occurs because of you and your partner are rarely seen each other or not having the quality time together. Although busy, you should set aside time to share storiesand tell your needs or desires of the couple.

3. If you want to have a happy marriage, you should avoid having a ‘friendship’ relationship that is not normal to other people. For example, with co-workers.

4. Despite cautious, sometimes the temptation come up considerably. As a precaution, it will not hurt to ask your partner to avoid interaction both emotionally and physically with his/her friends. Make him/her understand about emotional affair, so you both know that an affair can happen even without sex.

5. In his book The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work, John Gottman said that couples who successfully in a marriage is when they are able to correct mistakes or difficult circumstances in their relationship.

Each partner has its own way to overcome this problem, from a romantic way to silly things. It is able to remind your partner how much effort to get an apology from you.